How do I get over my self consciousness??

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Wow... how to say this. I'm 15 goin on 16 and me and a friend of mine got a little into things last night. He fingered me and I gave him a hand job but then he wanted to do oral. This freaks me out. I'm afaid it'll be awkward bekuz I'm pretty self concious and I'm afraid he'll want it back and I won't know what to do. I've had sex before, everything else is ok with me, but oral sex is just sketchy with me and I'm afraid if I do do it, it won't please him. What can I do? and how do I get over my self conciousness?? Advice
Keep in mind you don't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing.

Many people feel uncomfortable with oral sex so don't feel unusual.

If you want to try it, pretend you are giving him a hand job with your mouth. It isn't exactly the same but pretty much with not as much pressure. Use your hand to hold his penis and the stroke it while you are giving him oral sex.

Good luck! George

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