she must have gone home thinking wot the hell am i doin with a guy like this

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I am so embarrased and ashamed of all started 1 day wen my house was empty, so i decided 2 invite my girlfriend round.we had been tlkin bout takin things further n this was the perfect opportunity in both our eyes.she was a little unsure about me fingerin her but she asked me 2 do this.i did it and 2 my surprise, i did it gd. we were worried i wudnt no wot 2 do but i seemed 2 no exactly wot 2 do. but wen it came for her 2 give me a handjob, she thought she knew wot 2 do, and she did, she did it pretty much how i do it, yet nothing happened. it constantly felt gr8 but i never reached orgasm.we wer at it 4 absolutly ages, and nothin happened. we decided 2 giv up n i felt like i wasnt a real man cuz it wasnt happenin. she must have gone home thinking wot the hell am i doin with a guy like this. this has never ever happened 2 me and has neva took that long with no results.this was my first time recieving a hand job n the 1st time her giving 1. do i hav a problem??? can i hav some advice on how 2 stop this happening again??? is this my fault???? plz plz help! Advice
It's not unusual for the first time to be difficult. Nerves probably.

The best thing to do next time is for you to guide her hand so that you control the rhythm and it will probably work out ok. She should also kiss you while she does it (on the lips). Oh, and move your hips too.

Good luck!

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