Last night we were together and for the first time ever I felt an extreme sexual attraction for her

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I have browsed all of your categories and even visited your sister site to ask this question which is not PG related. Your response is greatly appreciated.

My cousin who is a woman has this ex-girlfriend that she dumped and claims she has no feelings for anymore. Well I started out being friends with her ex to try to patch things up between them and do both a favor. In the process, I (a str8 woman) am beginning to see her ex in a different way (romantically) that I think is being reciprocated but not sure. Her ex makes comments to me when she has sexual needs like "I wanna F..." or she'll say "you and me right now...your cousin doesn't have to know" but then she'll say sike I could never hurt her like that. She calls me or texts me everyday. She has spent a night over my house. She pays for dinner and drinks for me sometimes when we go out. Recently her cousin told me that she talks about me and says she wants me badly but doesn't want to hurt my cousin or have a rep for dating multiple family members. Last night we were together and for the first time ever I felt an extreme sexual attraction for her to the point where it was soaking wet downstairs. I don't know what to do and this is pure agony!! I want her but I love my cousin. Do you think her ex truly wants me or using me to get back at my cousin? And should her and I become secret lovers? Please help. Advice
You could talk to your cousin about it and find out if it is ok with her.

That way you could do what you want to do with no guilt.

In any case, it is your life and you can do as you please.

Best wishes!!

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