no cum for me

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am 18 and i just lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago. Although it does not hurt anymore, when i continued to have sex i noticed that while he is able to cum and have orgasms i am not...why dont i receive the same amount of pleasure that he does??? there something wrong???... Advice
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Female orgasm is rare, especially at your age. And here's something you need to know: for a male, the orgasm is purely mechanical. If even a little friction is applied to the penis, he can have an orgasm. For the woman an orgasm involves love and trust. If a woman tells you that she had five orgasms with a total stranger, she most likely lying. Give yourself time. When you find a man who loves you with all his heart the orgasms will happen.

-- from Lisa
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