Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
What the hell?
My girlfriend doesn't like clitoral stimulation (spelled that right?)
at first, when I tried it, she responded well.
Then I tried it a few weeks later and tried to get her to orgasm with just clitoral stimulation. I made sure my fingers were wet, and I started out slow and blah-de-blah. It had gotten to the point where I was about 2 minutes into the stimulation and I was moving at a moderately fast pace and she stopped me and said she didn't like to play games. SOOOO... I went for penetration and left it at that.

A few weeks later I was doing the same thing. I made sure everything was lubed up and didn't start with exact pressure, but off to the side, then the clit.... and she pushed me away and I did the two-finger touchdown thing again.

I think she just doesn't like it. Or she just likes penetration more.
Especially when I slipped a third finger into play... wow. good results. But she also isn't willing to try toys. SO... I'm not sure what to do... sigh... not at all... Advice
Do what she likes so long as you are ok with it.

Good luck! George

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