Too Early?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend(he is my 3rd boyfriend) and i started fooling around for the first time about a month ago, i had never let anyone else go beneath my clothes before. He turned me on so much that i started to cum before he had touched my crotch. He was kissing and touching my breasts but thats it. I didnt let it bother me because it was so new to me and i thought it was normal. The next time we were fooling around he went straight for my pants and started fingering me within 5 minutes. He commented that i had already started to cum! I was wondering if it is abnormal to cum that early on when being physical with your partner. Advice
It sounds like you are confusing the term "cum."

When you cum you have an orgasm. You would know if you had an orgasm. However, your boyfriend would not know unless you told him.

What both of you are probably confusing is getting moist and juicy which is not the same as cumming. You can get moist and juicy without cumming but you probably won't cum without getting moist and juicy.

If I am mistaken and you really are cumming then be very happy you are so responsive... you can't cum too early.

Good luck! George

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