from my experience if shes not in the mood give her the eyes and say rarr like a tiger then purr like a house cat if unsuccessful walk over to the front door open it and start trying to get her outside and into her car cause shes always up 4 it in there if unsuccessful just be real nice cuddle her on ur couch tell her u love her and let her rest on your chest and be u'll b even happier in that position then in doggy style.sometimes.now i wud lets take laptop and go inside and snuggle4a while.ok angel?i love u lets go grab the laptop my arm hurts.im really just lazy n tired from typing all this