How can we both get the most out of the experience?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Alright I have a few questions ( I didn't want to make different entries). First off, I want to pleasure my guy, what are some ways, other than sex, that I can satisfy him? Also, I get really turned on when I am on the phone with my boyfriend. I really want to have phone sex, but I have no idea what to say! What are the best things to say so we can both get the most out of the experience? And the last one, How do I bring up the idea of using a condom when I give him a hand-job?(so it doesn't make a mess!) Thank you so much for taking your time to help me! Advice
The next best thing to sex is a blow job so give that a try if you want to.

Phone sex can be a lot of fun. Talk to him as if you were doing things at the moment. Like "Now I am taking your shirt off." You can use your imagination and do whatever you like. For example, pretend you are making love on a moonlight beach in Hawaii.

The only way, other than bring a condom and putting it on him, is to ask him to bring a condom when you are going to give him a hand job.

Good luck! George

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