He doesn't want to pressure me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend of 3 months want to express ourselves a little more sexually. (Both of us are 18 yrs. old) He has fingered me many times before but I am scared to give him a hand-job. We've talked about it, and he says that he doesn't want to pressure me into doing anything that I don't want to do, but the truth is I DO want to give him that pleasure, I am just apprehensive to do so. I think my biggest fear is what to do when he ejaculates! What is the best thing to do when this happens? - We will BOTH be thankful for your advice! Thank you
The easiest way to do a hand job for the first few times is for the guy to wear a condom.
He should also hold your hand in his and move your hand rhythmically so he feels good. Make sure you ask him if it is going ok as you do it.
Whisper in his ear "I love you" to get him more excited.
When he comes it won't make a mess since he has a condom on.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com