I'm really bothered if I'm still a virgin or not?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
my boyfriend and I spent the night together last saturday, and we're doing everything but sex. we're rubbing each others private parts while he's on top of me. and he told me after some foreplay, that his penis entered my vagina already. about 3/4 of it. Im still a virgin.He's my first boyfriend. so Im wondering if his penis did enter my vagina, why didnt i feel anything?!I didnt even feel it enetered my vagina?His penis is not small, so I should feel something if it penetrated my vagina....All the while I though we're just rubbing our genitals.Im really bothered if im still a virgin or not?please help....
It's hard to answer this question.
Your boyfriend says he penetrated you with 3/4 of his penis and you say you felt no penetration.
This could be explained if you were very lubricated and his penis was not fully erect. It seems unlikely though that you wouldn't feel him inside you.
Let's assume that he did enter you just to see what the answers are.
First, if he did you are no longer a virgin. Although there are many definitions of virginity, most people consider a penis in vagina situation to be sexual intercourse and therefor a loss of virginity.
Second, if he didn't have a condom on you could be pregnant. This is true whether he came or not. You might want to go to a pharmacy and buy a pregnancy kit and find out for sure.
Hope this helps! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com
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