For some reason everytime I kiss my girlfriend, I get an erection

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
For some reason everytime I kiss my girlfriend, I get an erection and it is a pain in the ass. How do I stop it from coming because I want to just kiss her, whether we are standing up, in the car, or laying down, It still comes up. Is there something I can do to stop that because I think my girlfriend would not be very please to see or feel that right now. Even though we are very intimate and kiss a lot and feel each other, what or how do i prevent an erection during kissing, especially when I shouldnt be getting one.

How do I prevent an erection during kissing standing up, laying down or in the car, or really anywhere? It just comes up. Advice
Your body is acting very naturally by giving you an erection when you start kissing.

Don't even try to stop it. If you really think she might be bothered by it you should ask her. Girls are much more wise about these things than guys are (for the most part). She is almost certain to tell you that she realizes that it is perfectly normal.

You could even tell her that you wrote to me and I assured you that it was a perfectly normal reaction and not to try to repress it.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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