If at all possible please name all the things we can do sexually without actually having sex.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hi I have a question about sexual things that can be done but not actually having sex. My girlfriend and I have dry sex, make out, massage eachother, and I finger her. She is getting frustrated though b/c she cannot find any technique to pleasure me by. We have brought up handjobs, giving head, and actual sex. We want to hold off with the sex until she feels she is ready. I'm not one to like handjobs too much b/c well I can do it myself and about her giving me head well she thinks it's really gross and I don't want her doing anything she thinks is too gross. I am going to be givng her oral but we are trying to find something she can do to me in return so we can move on together. If at all possible please name all the things we can do sexually without actually having sex. Thanks in advance.
I wouldn't underestimate the pleasure you can get from a handjob from your girlfriend. It is definitely not the same as doing it yourself. Put a rubber on so you don't have to worry to much about the spouting.
Next she could lick, nibble, suck the shaft of your penis and you might come from doing it. Once again using a rubber ... just on the head would minimize the mess.
Once she gets accustomed to the licking etc., she might realize that it isn't that gross to actually give you a blowjob so there you go!
If she has large enough breasts, you could make love to her breasts.
That's about all that I can think of.
-- from George
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