The First Time at Intercourse

Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
How much does someone bleed when they lose their virginity for the first time?
I am 18 years old and have neva had sex before, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 7 months now, and I really do feel ready to have sex with him. We have tried twice but I found it a little painful to say the least. Can you help? Advice
There are no set answers. It's like asking how much you bleed during a period. Some women bleed a lot, some bleed a little. Some don't bleed at all, because the hymen is already broken.

Have you already gone through ALL the other intimacy things you can do? You should be completely comfortable with each other, naked, touching each other, etc. If you get nervous, you tense up. If you get tense, things hurt. You need to be as relaxed as possible, as lubricated as possible.

You can always talk to your gynecologist, to determine if there would be any other issues.

-- from Lisa
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