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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ok, so im 17 and my bf is 19. we both like being physical with eachother but we dont get to be alone together very often. we've been alone once in his dorm room and did stuff there but we havent been able to be alone like that again. we're trying to get together this weekend and maybe find some alone time then (we were thinking about hooking up in his car). i am now able to have sex (due to a surgery i just had) i know that neither of us want to have sex, but i want to do more then oral (ive only done that to him, im kinda unsure about him giving it to me)...i dont want to have sex but i want to be more you have any advice on that?
also i kinda like when the guy dominates and is kinda rough how do i tell him i like that...we're both kinda shy...and he isnt really like that in general.
any advice?

Thanks a bunch! Advice
Don't be so shy. It is a bad habit and you need to grow out of it if you want to have a successful relationship with men and potentially a husband.

Tell him you want him to give you oral... you should really enjoy it. As far as the dominating experience you want, same thing... tell him that you enjoy it when he is kinda rough. Give him hints about what to do, and when he does the right thing say "Oh, yes, that feels good."

Sex works better when you can be open about what makes you feel good and also so you know what pleases your partner.

Good luck! George

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