Worried about staying a virgin
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
So I'm a 20 year-old college kid who doesn't drink, smoke, or have sex. As a matter of fact, I just now have my first boyfriend (never dated, nothin'...). We both really care about each other and he respects the fact that I'm new to all of this and only moves as "fast" as I feel comfortable with. I doubt he'd leave me if I continue to move slow, but I want to be able to express my interest in him without having sex (it's one of those things I think should be saved for marriage). At the moment, we've only been kissing - and not even French kissing (I'm still weary about the whole tongue thing)...but I'm becoming more open to the idea. Basically though, I am looking for ways to keep things "interesting" and "fresh" for a while that don't involve the standard college "sack session," "blow job," or "hand job."
Of course, French kissing is the natural next step followed by feeling each other all over. Then feeling under the clothes and then with clothes off.
Kissing all over is good for a next step.
Perhaps by the time you have done all this, you will be ready for more.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com
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