he dont show me affection..
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i love my boyfriend to peices and i show him that i love him alot.im a cuddley person and im quite soppy when it comes to love i like to be romantic.i have been craving some attention of my bf because when im upset he never cuddles me and shouts at me instead...he dont cuddle me unless he wants something,and he hates holding my hand in public and also dosent kiss me passionatley.its really annoying because he is making me feel he is not attracted to me anymore.he has been quite cuddly in the past but its rare.we have rows over this as i feel he is not fuflilling my needs and he just turns round and tells me to go somewhere else to get cuddles because he aint that kind of person...its relly getting annoying and i want to know how to make him show me attention and give me cuddles because it makes me feels good and at the moment im going through depression so i need comforting and so on.please help me.x
You didn't mention how advanced you are in sexual activity. Maybe he is craving increasing the intimacy. If you think this is the case and if you are comfortable with it, tell him that cuddling will get him more physical intimacy.
If that's not the problem, then he is a rude, unthinking boyfriend and you should consider dumping him. He has made it quite clear that he is not the cuddling type and even suggested that you get your cuddling elsewhere. That is not the statement of a loving BF. He is making you feel unattractive and that is depressing in addition to your other problems.
You deserve better than him and you should seek it out.
Good luck! George
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One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com
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