No desire and married to a rabbit

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I seem to have no desire for sex, I have tried everything under the sun and then some to increase my libido. My husband has the libido of the energizer bunny, I feel bad for not wanting/being able to pleasure him. What can I do to help our relationship, although he says it doesn't affect how he loves me, I can't help but feel that it does.
(I've already seen the doc and the therapist)It would seem that all the other advice based on doing special things just seem to make the problem worse. Advice
If a doctor and a therapist haven't been able to help you, then it is very unlikely that I can help.

Trust your husband's judgement about how he feels.

You, on the other hand, need to decide for yourself whether you want to find another sex partner. Once consideration is whether you have ever had a libido with another partner.

Good luck! George

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