sex getting in the way
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and I are constantly having arguments dealing with sex.When we start getting into it and i decide i don't want to he gets mad because he got all worked up and wants me so bad still. I love him and i do want to have sex but sometimes i think too much and decide i don't want to and sometimes it's the location but he was to experiment in new places and likes doing it in "risky" places such as while his parents are home.It's hard for me and him to make out and stuff without getting sexual about it.I'm constantly telling him and myself that i don't want to have sex anymore but i always end up back into because i want him so bad and i love him so much as well as him for me.I'm just not sure how to resist or learn to just let things flow or sometimes just what to tell him when i randomly decide to stop him in the middle of it.I just need much advice on this.The top of sex is the main reason we have arguments and i feel if i get this under control the relationship would be much better and healthier for the both of us.thanks for you help!
Tell him you will only have sex with him when you want to.
Then stick to that rule.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com