After four months, change of heart?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months now. We've been very close for the past two years and share everything. You might think that its a wonderful thing to be so honest, but I was unprepared for what he told me last night. On the phone he mentioned to me that "he isn't used used to the way I make out". He is my first serious boyfriend and I am very unexperienced, both of which he knows. He tends to be pretty aggressive when kissing, and I know it's been difficult for me to know what to do. It just came to a shock that he hadn't mentioned anything before now. I asked him what he meant, but he wouldn't elaborate much. I am embarrassed to keeping pushing him and am incredibly anxious to keep making out with him. Any tips for talking about it openly, or improving the way we kiss to please him?
Yes, this is definitely a topic to discuss gently in person alone.
Maybe he wants you to be more aggressive with your tongue or maybe he wants to touch more parts of your body or you to touch him more intimately.
The only way to know is to ask him. Ask him if it is any of the above.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com