I want more
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am 17 and I met this 27 yr old guy in a club and started going out 3 months ago. He's really outgoing and he one of those people that makes a party more lively. But he's not a player, when it comes to women he's honest and straight, thats what his friends tells me. The thing is I have very protective parents and an older brother who keeps me on a leash, figuratively of course. So the only way I can see him is if I sneak out of school or pretend to go to a friend's party or some excuse like that. And when we do see each other all we do is meet up at his place to have sex. We dont talk alot because I'm too young to know about things he talk about and hes too old to know stuff I talk about to my friends. We have good sex and I do love him but he's just not affectionate or warm when we're not doing sex related stuff, its like I'm one of his friends. He's never taken me out either partly because we dont want to be caught and also because he's kinda poor. But I love him and really want more from him so how do I get it?
This relationship is going nowhere.
He is using you purely for sex and is cold and unaffectionate when sex is not involved.
You can't communicate which is one of the most important aspects of a good relationship.
Your family would be very upset to find out what you are doing and the odds are good that you will get caught one day.
You are probably not going to get anything more from him because of the factors mentioned above.
My advice is to give him his walking papers.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com
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