He cheated on me in such a bad way, I don't know what to do.
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
OKay, so I have had a boyfriend for the past six months. The relationship was so perfect in the beginning, I was happy all the time, and I couldn't get enough of him. I brought him into all aspects of my life, introduced him to the family, friends, talked about him at work and turned down various and sundry prospects for him.We even got our names tattooed to each other which now I feel dumb for doing. He has my name on his chest and I have his on the back of my neck.
Then a little less than a month ago I found out he cheated. Started suspecting and I digged for info, won't lie about digging for it. But what I found out hurt me so much that I'm not sure I will ever get over it. He took an ex-girlfriend to the movies and ksised her in his car for over half hour and even tried to hnage his work shift to see her the next day, cheated on me with some other girl as in not just kissing but actually slept with her, and drove an hour out of town to go sleep with some girl he met on the net. and he went down on her, picked me up at my house and kissed me right after. Everytime I think about it I'm disgusted by it. I love him dearly and I want to overlook it. But I just don't know how. I can deal with a man cheating if it never crosses my path and i don't suspect it. But when he cheats and lies and even brings himself (his dirty, sex-scented, dirty mouthed self) in front of me and kisses me I feel like I want to beat the crap out of him. I keep thinking I could have gotten sores all over my mouth a week later and I wouldn't know why. It was just such a big form of disrespect and hurt that I don't think I will ever get over it. I don't think I can forgive him. He says he wants us to stay together and does not accept it when I say we're finished. Says he is doing nothing wrong now and he's changed, yet he still has these little internet sex essions and still has chicks calling his phone like crazy. Not to mention he bragged to everyone about cheating on me and they all say it was more than the two times he admitted to. What to do?
The answer is very plain and very simple:
DUMP HIM NOW FOREVER
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com
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