Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have a question im still a virgin and I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 4 months and I really love him. He fingered me the other night but i was really sore afterwards, did he go to far? Because he's done it before but it didnt make me this sore. I know he went farther then before but do u think he went too far? Advice
You really can't go too far when fingering.

What probably happened is that he broke your hymen or stretched it a lot.

Another possibility is that his nails scratched your vagina. Make sure he keeps his fingernails short and clean.

If the pain goes away then don't worry about it. But if the pain persists then see a doctor or a gynecologist.

Good luck and Happy Holidays! George

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