Is it too late?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm Kristen.. I'm 18 years old.. I should probably give you some background.. I recently just got out of a 3 year relationship with my ex but surprisingly that's not my problem.. I'm actually glad I'm not with him anymore.. I want something new but I was hoping to just be single for a little bit until this other boy came into my life...
I've know him until I was in 2nd grade then he moved away but now he's back.. I barely know anything about him anymore, really, but I'm learning.. Anyways..
I'm already starting to like him... We've hung out for maybe 5 days and I've already regretably had sex with him.. It's not that I regret it it's just this is not like me.. I'm never like this.. and it's not the way I wanted it to be.. It wasent anything spectacular it was only sex.. but it usually takes me forever to like someone but for some reason he's just different..
But now I don't know what to do... I don't want him to think of me as a slut because I never do this, it was only with him.. I wish now that I could take it back. only because I wish I would have made him work for it a little more..
Now I'm confused and I don't know what to do... There's no way I could explain something like that, yet I dont want to just let it go...
Is there anyway to act as a start over point or something? Ughh
The best thing to do is to be honest with him.
Explain what you explained to me. How you are not like that but he brought something special with him.
This will erase any doubts he has about you, if he does have doubts.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com