am i doing to much for my age?
Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
OK I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS BOY FOR 2 WEEKS BUT HAVE KNOWN HIM 4 SOME MONTHS NOW. WE HAVE KISSED AND ALL AND SAID I LOVE YOU. BUT ONE DAY ON THE PHONE HE SAID IF I LOVE HIM THEN I SHOULD HAVE SEX WITH HIM. ALL WE DO IS KISS AT SCHOOL. HE COMES OVER MY HOUSE WHEN MY PARENTS ARE GONE. HE KISSES ME ON MY NECK AND ALL OVER. I HAVE GIVING HIM A HAND JOB. BUT HE WANTS TO TAKE THIS FUTHER. I REALLY DON'T KNOW IF I AM READY FOR SEX AT THE AGE OF 14. WAS MY FIRST MISTAKE KISSING HIM ON THE FIRST NIGHT WE MET.
You have gone plenty far for only two weeks.
Kissing on the first night is not too fast but he seems to be demanding more than is reasonable at your age. And, if he is over 16 he could get into trouble with the law.
You should not listen to him and instead make him wait until you are ready. And that might not be until you are 16 or 17 or even older. Whatever you are comfortable with is what you should do. And make sure you know what you are getting into in regards to pregnancy and STD's.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com
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