Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been seeing my girlfriend now for nearly 5 months, we are both 19, and i want to take the relationship further, but i am really shy, even with my girlfriend, and i want to know how i would go about having sex with her. We have a pretty normal relationship i would say, we kiss each other passionately, and we are in love. We have both made our feelings on the matter clear to each other, we would both like to have sex, but she has had sex before and i'm still a virgin, and i don't have a clue how to go about it. I'm just too shy, and i keep thinking if i make the first move, she might feel pressured, like i'm forcing myself on her. I really don't want to lose her, i feel like she's the one i want to spend the rest of my life with, could you give me some advice on how to take the next step. Sorry for the long message!!!!!
Since you both are of one mind on the matter, the rest should be easy.
Talk with her again and tell her you are shy and it would help if she guided you along the way. She should be happy to do it and things will go well.
She will help you get over your shyness.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com