Girlfriend cheated on me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ok I have a big problem. my girlfriend and i are both 16 Just this last monday i was sitting on the couch with my girlfriend(of 5 months now) and she started crying...she told me that at the beginning of our relationship she had meet up with her ex boyfriend(whom she was with for 2 years) she told me he kissed her and she didnt stop him. she was horribly sorry and i understood...she didnt know what she really wanted...so i thought
Then...2 days later i was at school and her 3 best friends came up to me and told me that it wasnt the whole story...her friends thought it was right i knew the truth...apparently she had done it 6-8 time throughout our relationship and he fingered her on one occasion...later that night i called her and she came over... she finally admited to it...it was so close to ending that night but in my opinion everybody disirves a second chance...now ive lost many friends because i forgave her...she was so sorry...we sat on the couch for 5 1/2 hours as she cried telling she was sorry the whole time...we have planned on the next time we are together we are going to talk...
my question is should i break up with her or not? is my opinion stupid...that everyone should get a second chance? what the hell should i do?!?!
i know this is long i tried shortening it. thanks for your help
I'm sorry to say this but you should probably dump her.
You've been going out for five months and during that time she cheated 6-8 times. That's almost once every two weeks.
If it was once or twice maybe... but 6-8 times is too much.
It sounds like she has no self-restraint.
Good luck! George
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One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com
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