Sex: isn't going to fit

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend have been really close for about 2 months now and we were talking about having sex. When it came to being alone and talking to eachother and having an awsome time together we went upstairs to bedroom and got intimate. Then when it came round to trying to have sex i found that its not going to fit. Maybe something to help? I'm not sure if it's just me that thinks its going to be very tight or if thats just normal? Advice
Try using your fingers and see how tight it is.

Ask her what her previous experience has been.

Perhaps she has vaginismus which is a contraction of the vaginal muscles to the point where penetration is not possible.

If vaginismus seems to be the cause, she might want to check with her doctor or gynecologist.

Good luck! George

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