help me please

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
my gf and i have been going out for a month and a half and usually iv done a little more then what i have done this girl by now but my question is whenever i go to finger her she is scared cuse we're always and a room close to her or my parents. and once i was rubbing her clit threw her skirt cuse she wouldnt let me go under and her dad walked in luckly he didnt see. but that also made her scared. i wondering where we could go to do stuff away from people and by the way i dont have a car. and also how to make her not as scared. and another different question is how to have her give me a handjob without asking?
thanks and sorry this was so long
sorry i have one more question how should i tell her i love her would it be a good idea to wait and tell her on her birthday in a month?
thanks Advice
Finding a secluded, secure place is always a challenge without a car.

Perhaps going on a walk or having a picnic at a forest preserve is a possibility.

Ideally you should discuss sexual activity with her so you are on the same page. But sometimes that is difficult to do.

Take her hand and and show her how to massage your penis under your pants. Once she is doing that ok, take out your penis and once again take her hand and massage yourself holding her hand under yours until she gets the rhythmn.

Yes, telling her you love her on her birthday is a good idea.

Good luck! George

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