Which way do I go?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
OK normally with guys I'm shy and nervous and scared, especially if I like them. But with my current boyfriend I was a little nervous, but I met him hugged him and I wasn't nervous (to the point where I'm shaking) like I normally am. I'm trying to figure out if this is good or bad. Like should I go out with or be encouraged by the guys who don't make me nervous or are those the guys I'm suppose to avoid. This only happens with guys I like, you know guys I think are hot and cool and whatnot. All the other guys I can joke with and everythings cool. I have no clue how to base my views on certain guys. HELP!!
Since you feel comfortable with your current b/f you should stay with him.
Your goal should be to feel comfortable with most men. Feeling good with your b/f is a step in that direction.
If you continue to feel uncomfortable with most men (hands shaking etc) then you might want to seek professional counseling.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at FlirtingClass.com