first time

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hello im 18 nd my gf is 17 and the other day she sed dat she wants to have sex with me ! and its the 1st time for both of us ! i want to do it too with her! but theres sumthin that worries me! i hear all the time that sex is the begginnin of the end to a relatioship ! but why is that? i dont want that to happen between us so i told her dat i dont want to feel uncomfortable after we do it for the 1st time ! and i want things to get better not worse! and i told her that i want her to be ready and sure before we do it ! we both love each other ! we know its the real thing! now wot can i do so dat after we do it we wont feel uncomfortable with each other??? and sumthin else lately wen we are 2gether we onli talk bout things dat make us laugh not any serious stuff is dat ok? nd sumthin last that might sound stupid and pethetic ... i dunno how to put a condom on coz i have never done it b4 :(
thanks in advance Advice
You have talked it over with her and you should have no problem with things changing afterwards. Sex does not mean the end of a romance.

Don't worry too much about only talking about things that are fun. You will have plenty of deeper conversations in the future.

Regarding the condom... practic putting one by yourself so you get the hang of it. Basically they come out of the package coin shaped and rolled up. The trick is to see which way the roll is going and putting it on the tip of your penis so that when you roll it down it rolls down easily. If you are large, they sell large sizes too.

Good luck, George

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